If My partner has already left is there anything I can do?

It is much better if you start our program before things reach this stage. If your partner has their heart set on leaving you there is not much you can do. That said, we get many emails thanking us that the understanding our eBooks gave them helped them get closure and heal after their divorce. You should also be aware that your partner may land on your doorstep after ‘sucking their new relationship dry” and want you to forgive them and take them back. If you do, this may begin to happen repeatedly and so our information on how to deal with them if you decide to take them back will be very useful.

What is best for my kids?

What matters to your kids is that you resolve the conflict. If you divorce but the fighting continues this is very bad for your kids. Personally we think that it is best if you can save your marriage. Either way it is important that you resolve the conflict and learn healthy relationship skills you can pass on to your kids.

Should I give your ebooks to my partner and tell them I suspect they are narcissistic?

No, our products are for you and you should follow the steps in them. If and when your partner is willing, the exercises in The Love Safety Net Workbook and our audio products will help them, but in the beginning it is unlikely that they will be prepared to participate without you pushing, which will not help. It is important that you follow the steps and exercises first. Your efforts will bring change for you whether they get better or not.

Will your program help other narcissistic members of my family?

Yes, our program was adapted from parenting skills and so will be useful with teenagers, adult children and other family members, obviously with some modification. We recommend that you read as much of our material as you can before you decide on your plan of action.

How do I best print and bind my eBooks?

Please watch the short movie above, at the end is a demonstration of how to best do this that will really help you get organized.

General instructions for purchasing our products

I lost the link that I was sent after purchasing the downloads  

Check Your browser history the page should look like this in your history;

If you still can’t find it please email us and we will send you the link again and this time please remember to bookmark the page.

I am being told that I need to buy Quicktime Pro to download the file -

Try using a different browser to download the file. We recommend Safari which you can download free here - http://www.apple.com/safari/download/

Please make sure that you save a copy of the page address to use in the new browser once you have downloaded it.

I am getting a player and can listen on-line but can’t download the file -

Go back and right-click (or control click on a mac) on the text audio link and choose download linked file from the menu that appears. If there is no option to download the file try using a different browser. We recommend Safari which you can download free here - http://www.apple.com/safari/download/

Please make sure that you save a copy of the page address to use in the new browser once you have downloaded it.

When will I receive the Guide and CD?

The guide and audio are available only as downloads at this time.

How Do I tune in to the Radio Show?

The radio show is available at present only by subscription. Once you subscribe at our site you will be sent new shows and a link to an archive of past shows by e-mail link.

Is it OK for someone who does not have NPD to listen to the audio for moving beyond the narcissistic stage in human development?

Everyone has some narcissistic tendencies, this audio will be of benefit to anyone who wishes to be more confident, to know themselves better and be more mature.

How do I get my partner to listen to the “Moving Beyond the Narcissistic Stage in Human Development Audio?”

Say that it is for both of you and that you would like to listen to it together at bed time and that it is to help you stop fighting. Print out the cover and burn it as a CD (if you can) and show it to your partner including the writing in the inner sleeve. Tell the truth that everyone has narcissistic tendencies and that these tendencies are a big reason why people fight and feel unhappy with each other. Explain that it will help them relax and sleep and perform better. Don’t make any accusations or lay blame and try to bring this up when they are in a good mood.

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