Relationship abuse may begin with a man who feels vulnerable and poorly equipped to deal with life and who may also fear abandonment.

1. •Does your marriage make you feel weak rather than strong?
   

2. •Do you feel your husband undermines you rather than supports you?
   

3. •Do you feel that you cannot relax or be yourself when he is around?

You cannot increase your intelligence, but happily you can increase your emotional intelligence and working on this and other personal development skills to help you feel more secure as a person will certainly help.

If you answered yes you may be part of an abusive relationship.   

On the outside this person may appear confident and strong, but his need to control his family (and make them feel bad about themselves) shows that this strength is in fact a pretense.

We offer help for victims to see how their own actions and reactions play into their abusive relationship. 

No matter how much you feel you are the innocent victim of a abusive husband statistics show that by leaving your husband (and putting all the blame on him for your abusive relationship) you are like to form exactly the same type of relationship (or worse) again in the future.

Abusive Husband

What is Relationship Abuse?

Why do Husbands Abuse Their Families?

What if I am an Abusive Husband?

What Can I do if I am the Victim of an Abusive Husband?

An abusive husband may fear abandonment and can react very negatively to the threat of you leaving. For this reason it is safer NOT to threaten divorce if you don’t intend going through with it and if you do wish to separate please make sure you get our advice first on how to do this safely.

You should know that divorce is not your only option. We have advice that will improve your situation if you leave or stay. Steve and I had about the worst marriage in the world, but now 5 years on, I believe we have one of the best!

Please read our pages on emotional abuse, mental abuse and verbal abuse but most importantly this page about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. 

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