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- Narcissistic Personality Disorder In Your Partner
Are You Treated Differently in Private than in Public?
Are Your Nerves Shattered from Hiding Your Shame?
Relationship abuse may begin with a partner who feels vulnerable and poorly equipped to deal with life and may be frightened of abandonment.
Do your relationships with your family make you feel weak rather than strong?
Does your partner undermine you rather than support you?
Do you have trouble relaxing and being yourself when they are around?
You cannot increase your intelligence, but happily you can increase your emotional intelligence and working on this and other personal development skills to help you feel more secure as a person will certainly help.
If you answered yes, you may be part of an abusive relationship.
On the outside this person may appear confident and strong, but their need to control the people around them while putting people down, shows that this strength is really a pretense.
An abusive partner may fear abandonment and can react very negatively to the threat of you leaving. For this reason it is important that you do NOT threaten divorce if you don’t intend going through with it, and if you do wish to separate please make sure you get our advice first on how to do this safely.
You should know that divorce is not your only option. We have advice that will improve your situation if you leave or if you stay. Steve and I had about the worst marriage in the world, but now I believe we have one of the best!
As the saying goes ‘It takes 2 to tango’ and we offer help for victims to see how their own actions and reactions play into their abusive relationship.
No matter how much you feel you are the innocent victim, statistics show that by leaving your partner (and putting all the blame on them for your bad relationship) you are like to form exactly the same type of relationship (or worse) again in the future.
Abusive Relationship Help
What is Relationship Abuse?
Why do People Abuse Their Loved Ones?
What if I am Guilty of Relationship Abuse?
What Can I Do if I am the Victim of Relationship Abuse?
Please read our pages on emotional abuse, mental abuse and verbal abuse but most importantly this page about Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
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