“Without meaning to, a codependent partner can suck
all of the life out of a relationship by expecting
all of their happiness to come from you.”
- Does your partner expect you to do things for them that you find surprising for an adult to need?
- Is your partner chronically ill and expect you to worry and care about them more than you really do?
If you are tired of talking through your relationship problems and feel that your partner has forgotten how to have fun -- we suggest 10 steps to Overcome Codpendence as a gift you can give them while together you work through the exercises in The Love Safety Net Workbook, to help you pull your marriage out of it’s slump.
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Is your partner’s complaining, moodiness and emotional
neediness making it hard for you to care?
- Do they complain about you to their friends or your kids?
- Do they expect you to guess what they need and get upset and complain when you don’t?
- Do they expect you to make them happy while not noticing that you are not happy yourself?
- Do they do things for you that you really don’t want or ask for - but then get upset when you don’t give them something in return?
- Do they blame you for being heartless when every time they feel a little down or depressed you do not put their needs before your own?
- Does what they expect from you include things that often you don’t know how to give?
- Does your partner want to talk about your relationship problems when you would rather be doing something else?
- Do they act like there is something wrong with you if you don’t care about them in all the ways they want you too?
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