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Dear Kim & Steve, Before this year has gone, I wish to thank you both most sincerely for helping me save my marriage.

At the beginning of this year, all seemed hopeless and my husband and I had separated under very unpleasant circumstances.

Totally distressed and unable to make sense of my husband's behaviour,

I stumbled upon your website 'by accident'. This, as well as your wonderful emails and podcasts helped me to gradually understand what had been going on in my marriage.

Nine months later, my husband and I are back together (and have been since May). We are both very happy and respect has become a vital part of our relationship. It has taken time and great patience to rebuild trust, but our friendship is stronger than ever and for the first time I feel he respects me for who I am.

Every day is a blessing, even though there is still work to be done.

We would not be together today if it were not for your wonderful website and positive message. I am sure many people have already said this, but please never doubt the good you both do.

God bless you both!

Eleana Kerr


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End the Conflict Not Your Relationship

  After years of us fighting, I was told Steve was suffering from something called Narcissistic Personality Disorder and that because there was no cure I should ‘just leave’ him and make no further contact.

  Shocked that the professionals were so negative with so little to offer,

I determined to find answers to help end the fighting and bring love and emotional stability to our home.

  Years later when our marriage had improved beyond all recognition,

I decided to turn my research into an eBook. My notes (first written for my own reference) became, Back From the Looking Glass - 13 Steps to a Peaceful Home,.

  I had no idea what I had begun; seven years on we have received over a thousand testimonials, many from people in desperate situations, saying we have saved their family, sanity, marriage and sometimes even their life.

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It took me years of research and trial and error to discover that most of what psychology teaches about relationships is the opposite to what really works.

Well that sounds all well and good but what if your partner is lying to you or doesn’t want to talk? Or even worse spends way too long talking about problems you have no idea how to manage?

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Kim, I don’t know if this email will get to you, but I wanted to thank you for your emails, they give me hope and I feel very warm hearted whenever I get an email from you.

This is a very difficult time in my life and one of  the best things I have ever done was email you from  your website. 

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